“Bed of Roses”: A Song of Quiet Devastation and the Strength to Let Go
- Spit Mad
- Oct 2
- 2 min read
Ah, but this isn’t the kind of bed of roses you might think. Not the sweet, perfumed kind you find in storybooks or Hallmark endings. No, this one is thorny. Tangled. Real. And it belongs to Angie and Chris McConnell—a husband and wife who don't just sing songs together, they bleed into them.

From the very first line, “There are times I feel you getting restless,” Angie’s voice trembles—not in weakness, but in a sort of emotional knowing. That weary kind of wisdom one only earns through heartbreak not just once, but many times, usually with the same person. It’s not just a song. It’s a reckoning.
She doesn’t raise her voice. She doesn’t have to. You can hear the silence between words. You can hear the space where love used to live. And as she sings “I’m too tired to keep beggin’, you know where I stand,” you realize—this isn’t the sound of someone giving up. It’s the sound of someone standing up.
And then there’s Chris—his guitar work steady, tender, understated. A companion not just musically, but emotionally. You can hear the years between them in the strings. The friction. The forgiveness. The wounds. The healing. It’s all there in the way he holds back, in the spaces he leaves open for her voice to tell the story.
Now, the title—“Bed of Roses”—it suggests something soft. Romantic. But here, it’s more like a resting place for a weary soul. One lined with truth instead of petals. And the truth? Well, sometimes it hurts. Sometimes it sets you free. Sometimes, as in this song, it does both.
The lyrics are not fancy. Not poetic for the sake of poetry. They’re plainspoken. “Things will work out or they just won’t.” A line so simple, so stark, it almost feels like a prayer. A surrender not to fate, but to peace. It’s the sound of someone who’s decided they can’t carry the weight of someone else’s indecision anymore.
And the video? It doesn't distract. It doesn't dazzle. It simply exists, like a window into a moment that was never meant to be witnessed. Which, of course, makes it all the more powerful.
“Bed of Roses” is not an anthem. It’s not a cry for attention. It’s a soft, steady heartbeat from a couple who have seen the edges of love—and returned, not with bitterness, but with clarity. A song not about falling apart, but about choosing yourself. Quietly. Finally. Completely.
–Kevin Morris
